2021.09.25 06:01 nietzcheshaircut Wife of 5 years had an EA, I feel like there’s more to it
I need some advice from someone who has been in a similar situation.
A month ago my wife of 5 years was in an EA with a an old friend, we’ll call him B. It lasted 6 days, they never met in person and she sent a few nudes and had flirty conversations.
It was mostly her spilling her problems and B listening/ manipulating. She was unsure about her life. I know 100% I’m not to blame for this, but in the past year I’ve been so distracted with work I downplayed her cries for help. She’s 26, I’m 36. We got married when she was 21 and pregnant. Life came fast. I wish we had more time but couldn’t bare life knowing we had an abortion (to each their own). She was talking to a therapist for a week and then kinda quit. I thought everything was ok.
So fast forward two months later and I walk into our room and see her quickly close an app. I asked her what it was and she was fumbling her words. I take the phone and I see a conversation with B, who I knew was an old friend of hers. I scrolled and saw the conversation started as something friendly 6 days ago, to flirting and sending those photos (3 nudes) that disappear immediately on Instagram (she came clean immediately and said they were nudes). Luckily he didn’t screenshot them cause it would tell you. She confessed about masturbating to sending the photos cause she got off on the rush. Most of the conversation wasn’t sexual. They talked about meeting up but neither of them really followed up on it or planned it. It seemed more like their type of flirting but im sure she had the intentions to meet while in the moment. The sketchy part was they would go into “vanish mode” and parts of the convo would disappear. She said they accidentally discovered vanishmode when she accidentally swiped up and it popped up. There’s search history proving it, but then they would use it every now and then “for fun” I’m not sure if she was hiding something or just did it to be funny.
She denies ever really planning to meet him, she said she was more about the teasing. Later I found out she imagined herself having sex with him, but it was “just a fantasy”. The nudes she sent were more artsy looking and didn’t show too much but just enough. It was enough to feel like a dagger in my heart. She did mention to B that it wasn’t right and she was going to deactivate the account the day before I found out but still didn’t deactivate. Which leads me to think what would have happened if I didn’t catch her. I can’t trust that she really planned on deactivating.
So when I ask why, she immediately started crying and was begging for forgiveness. She said she just wanted to feel heard, she felt like this person actually listened to her and it made her feel wanted. I checked our cell phone log online, I checked her google maps history, I checked her work punches, her emails, deleted photos, and everything matches up. There’s 100% proof she never met up with him. I feel like there’s more to it even tho there’s all the evidence that nothing happened physically. The vanishmode setting is getting to me head. I eventually contacted B to let some things off my chest and he had the same exact timeline of events as her and I saw their last conversation. So she didn’t give him a heads up about me contacting him. She’s had zero communication with him since I found out. I made her block him forever or I would 100% divorce.
Has anyone kept trying to force an idea that more happened even tho you know it didn’t? Is it part of the trauma that comes with being betrayed? We have 3 kids and I want it to work out. She’s been working so hard this past month at fixing this. She gave me full control over all of her stuff. She gave me access to everything. She even put an app on my phone that mirrors all of her phones activities. She Is willing to make an appointment with a lie detector even. When I told her I made a lie detector appointment she thanked me cause I keep accusing her of doing more even though she has shown me all the proof
She set up our marriage counseling and also booked my own therapist and hers. I just want to know if anyone has any experience in something similar to this? I haven’t felt like myself. It still deeply hurts but it’s getting a little better. I can’t stop thinking about what “could have” happened. This is not as bad as most stories on here, but this is my own nightmare.
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2021.09.25 06:00 helswake It's possible to assign multiple different keys to a single skill. Can use to bind a skill to both left & right click. (Possibly a bug)
To do this in game:
1: Open skill bar
2: Assign a key to a skill
3: Overwrite the assignment
4: Exit game and rejoin a game. Now both keys will work for that skill.
You can literally make one skill have any number of keybinds assigned to it as you want. The hotbar will only show one of the keys, but they will all work.
This also works for binding a skill that can be used on left and right click, which is something I wanted in the original for my Meteorb sorc. I wanted the option to have both [fireball on left / frozen orb on right] and also [frozen orb on left / teleport on right], but you could only bind either the left click orb or the right click orb, but not both.
In the remaster this is currently possible by assigning a key to the left skill, then the right skill, leaving the game, and re-entering a game. When assigning keybinds, it appears to function as it did originally where binding the left slot's key will erase the bind on the right slot (and vice-versa). But when you rejoin, the erased binding comes back. Left and right slots even show their respective binds.
It seems like a weird bug to me, but I hope this doesn't get fixed because honestly it's really useful.
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